Ashame of being Poor? Nope..I find it as a form of motivation..

Is being Poor a sin?
No..I personally do not think so myself..

But often there is a saying: if you're poor, you must be poor with pride..
And that used to be in the past, and based on certain circumstances..
Talking about this Pride, against Pride means doing something illegal or against the good nature will, or against your own will..

But..If given a scenerio that, if you're in deep trouble and need financial aids from others, and without this financial aids, the whole family will NOT be able to survive as there are no breadwinners in the family, and there are 3 OTHER family members in the family who are unable to work until 3-5yrs later..

will you guys choose to have pride? or choose to get help to survive?

For me, I personally will humbly receive help from others, and in return, I will return the favours to those who helped me in the future when my family life is better..

And yes, I do not deny the fact that I AM POOR..as it is the true fact, and therefore I WILL try to change the fate from being poor to slowly becoming richer..And not just depending on pride, and putting the blames on any of my fore-fathers that I was born to be poor..

In order to succeed, one has to put in effort..Based on pride alone, I don't think it can get us far..Yes, with pride at work, it is good..It shows the amount of confidence on your work..
But with pride being unwilling to receive help when others see that you're suffering or struggling, that is called "all the best to you"..

So..when there's people who tell me, hey, demin..You're a Poor piece of ****...
I will just laugh, and reply with a Yes..

"Yes, im poor, but I WILL be richer (future) in terms of personal assets, and I was already independent without any support from parents since young, and unlike most of you who live in 4-5 rooms HDB flats or bigger, I only live in 2 room HDB flat since I was 5 yrs old, and unlike most of you who has a complete family, I had been living without a Father since 5yrs old..But Im not sad about it, and neither that Im complaining about it.. In fact, my life is quite fulfilling, my friends are great, and Im seriously more happier than those people who are richer than me..LoL..And I still do not care that the fact that Im poor..who cares..As long as we lived life to the fullest.. Ask any friends around me, and they will tell you that, going out with me, you will feel that laughter and fun is all around..I lose in terms of being poor, but I won in terms of happiness"..


This is the PRIDE I have..(below statement)
I will receive help from those who really meant to help me, and will not reject those who wants to help willingly, and I will be very grateful, and of course, I will help them in return in near futures to come.."Survival or Pride?"

For those who gives sacarstic remarks, despises me and yet wants to help (which I do not think will happen since they despise you so much), then THIS KIND OF HELP, i will REJECT..
The reason mainly is that, since they do not meant to help, why pretend to help? why bother to act in front of others? does it get them to stand a chance for the upcoming voting of MP selection?


To my friends:
Above statements are dedicated to a few particular person, and this kind of prideVSmoney problem was not posed to me, so don't worry, it was not me who's affected..
Just stating the fact that, when one needs help, do not be afraid to ask for help. Humans are born to help one another, not to despise each other..

To guys who despises poor ppl like us:
NOTE - you can give comments about us, but keep them to yourselves, and if you do not wish to help, pls do not pretend that you want to help, and then followed by sessions of "talking behind the backs"..I believe in KARMA..LoL..

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My personal Motto:
Fairness, Justice, Equality